Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Spill The Salt, Shame The Devil PT. III

POST BY JERALD BUTLER

Put yourself in the size 10.5 Jordan’s (Retro 1’s to be exact) of a well-educated, well-groomed, and well-mannered Black male. You spot an attractive female, an 8 on a 1-10 scale. You check her out; she’s wearing a fitted skirt, a blouse that hugs her torso tighter than a cheap durex.  You catch a glimpse of her shoes:  4 Inch, fire red pumps. She deserves a compliment...right?

  So you give her a compliment, and she gives you the filthiest attitude in return. What did you do wrong?

Questions for the fellas: If she's playing hard to get are you in for the chase or do you leave her and self-centeredness for the next guy?
For the ladies: What are your "boundaries" for compliments? What causes you to snap on him, or ignore him when a stranger "compliments" you?
*FEEL FREE TO ANSWER BEYOND THE QUESTIONS, SPEAK YOUR GRAIN*